Saturday, June 30, 2012

June 2012 Summer is here!

Soon after we moved back, it was time for Molly to have her first trip to the Dentist.  We love Dr. Gordos at Berks Kids Dentistry!   http://www.berkskidsdentistry.com/   It's a great practice and they really make the  experience of going to the dentist wonderful for kids.

Check out the sunglasses!

All clean and happy!

With our home about 10 minutes from Dutch Wonderland, it was a no brainer to get season passes for the summer... also with the benefit of free parking and discounts at Hershey Park.   We made several visits over the summer and also later for special holiday events during the year.  Owen and Molly went this time with their friend Kiera....  They are such good friends and have a great time playing together!

With Duke!

Owen loved this bulldozer ride ever since he was about 2.  Now Molly is happy to let him still ride it with her even though he's really outgrown it.  :)


Monster Trucks.

Owen, Molly and Kiera on the beloved Frog Hopper...

In June, our friends the Larsen's visited on their round the country tour before being stationed in... wait for it... Hawaii!   We're so jealous, but really enjoyed spending a day with them catching up on life.  Our kids are very similar in ages and have many of the same interests... it was almost funny because they met for the first time and immediately were off for the evening like they knew each other forever.   Owen and Ryan checking out a game...

Well... what do I say about this?  We laughed a lot watching Molly and Kate.

Allison captured this picture one morning as Molly was hanging out in the office...

Our toothless wonder of a soccer player.

We were blessed to have so many friends now living close by and summer fun ensued at the Hannah's on this afternoon...

Owen and his friend Jackson enjoying the Slip-n-Slide!

Molly and Kiera...   Their expressions in the moment make me wonder what they were saying to each other?



Saturday, June 16, 2012

Don't cry because it's over....

It’s been just over a year now since we signed our 3 year contract and relocated to Vancouver, BC.  I can’t believe how fast it has all gone and I’m happy to say that life here in Vancouver has exceeded our expectations.  We have met so many wonderful people, forging friendships that will last long after we leave, and created adventures that our whole family will remember forever.  The Canadian culture is at times very familiar and at other times very foreign, but we have embraced our ex-pat life and taken it all in stride. 

However, I would have never predicted just how much we would be challenged.  Now that life has stabilized to a mere thunderous roar, I can recount some of the recent history and bring everyone up to speed. 

6 months after we moved, we had hit our stride…..we had a routine for life and Vancouver had become our new “home”.  I recall a weekend when Allison and I were talking about the past few months….  how it was a big change, but we made it...  we laughed about how we had worried so much about the kids, when in reality, they adapted quicker than we did.

Our world turned sideways on September 12th, 2011 when I was informed that our Divisional management had  made a decision to close the development site in Burnaby.  To be fair, I had seen some signs in the previous weeks, but the formal message was devastating.  Timing was aggressive with a closure date in April 2012. 

Over the next four months, while keeping ongoing activities moving, I had to confidentially plan to transfer all of the local R&D activity to other sites, while supporting a small team to plan the shut-down of the entire facility.  The work side of it was just another challenge, but the personal side of this process was one of the more difficult things I’ve had to do in my career. 

For us, initially we were just angry.  It was a huge decision for us to move to Vancouver in the beginning. The process of getting to Vancouver was tough as our house in PA took very long to attract any buyers and ultimately we had to sell for a big loss.  Allison had quit a wonderful job and sacrificed not being able to work, for my career…. we sat over more than a few glasses of wine and asked ourselves… how should we react to this?   Some nights we laughed at how crazy it was, but most the time we were sad.  Thoughts of all the places we wanted to go, thinking about how we couldn’t tell our friends for months and making up stories about why we weren’t signing the kids up for activities in the spring, or making plans for next summer.  It was depressing and affected us both to the core.   As time went on, we just fell into what we know best.  We were together as a family, everyone was healthy, and this would be just another adventure that we would work through and tell stories about in the future.

The next step was to answer the burning question “where do we go from here?”  The first option presented was China.  Bosch offered a development assignment for 2 years to create an R&D site in our factory in China.  This was a tremendous opportunity for my career, but we needed to learn more.  In December, Allison and I visited China for just over a week, to see the city, look at housing, visit the schools, and generally determine if we could accept living in China for 2 years or not.  A few years ago, I would have turned this down on the spot, but after our experience in Vancouver, we were a changed family…..we were open to adventure and interested in broadening our experiences and learning about new cultures.

I had travelled into the region for work, several times before, but you view things in a much different way when you are thinking about living there! For Allison, it was her first visit to Asia.  Zhuhai, where the Bosch factory is located, is in a geographically nice area of China, across the bay from Hong Kong.  The air is significantly better than the areas around Beijing or Shanghai. The schools were amazing, and the housing exceeded our expectations.  We spent the week with sponsors from HR, other Ex-pats and members of the management team in Zhuhai, who all made our visit special and very enjoyable.  Sure, we had our moments, where we looked at each other and said…. What in the hell are we doing here…?  but we had more moments where we were simply struck with awe that we were in China giving serious thought to relocating to the area.   

This is the view from one of the apartments we really liked.  It was in a huge housing development outside of Zhuhai.  We were impressed with the environment where all the parking was underground, they had playgrounds and many greenspace areas between the buildings, along with trails along the river to walk or ride bikes on.

Allison and I at the ship restaurant in Zhuhai.  We had so much great food during our visit!

After the week in Zhuhai, we had the weekend on our own, which we spent in Macau and Hong Kong, and had a wonderful time. 

The Venetian, in Macau, is currently the largest casino in the world.   It was literally larger than life.

Allison in the canal shops area...

We saw a cirque du soleil show while we were there for the day.   This is a picture of the stage after the show..

Just playing with the camera taking night shots of some of the building exterior....

Light show at the Galaxy while we were waiting for the shuttle bus to the border.

The International Commerce Center building in Kowloon.  This is currently the 5th tallest skyscraper in the world right now at 1588ft.

The clocktower at Victoria Harbor.  We were fortunate to have a beautiful and clear day in Hong Kong.

On the pier at Victoria Harbor.

After walking around the night market, we went back down to the harbor to see the light show.  The buildings themselves are really beautiful at night.

We have a series of pictures, from our travels over the years, of goofy signs.  This was was worthy of our collection. 

We had an evening flight from Hong Kong, so we spent the morning on the island, and went up to the peak.  We took a bus up and rode down on the historic tram.  At one of the lookout spots, they had these stone figures.  Loved the picture with the city in the background.

 Panorama of the view from the lookout.  It's an amazing city that just goes on and on.

In a funny way, Starbuck’s ended up being the one constant that we experienced during our entire trip…. And after Vancouver, the land of Starbucks on every corner, that was a good thing!

After returning, we got through the holidays and after many sleepless nights and long conversations, we agreed to go.  Contracts were discussed, terms and conditions were agreed to…  and we finally announced our big decision to family and friends.  Then….

Just a day later, the Bosch management team came back and informed us that they had decided to cancel our assignment in China as part of a series of cost control measures.  !!!!  How could this happen again?  After all the thought and consideration we had given to this... and having made a decision, we were committed and excited to go.  To have it slip away that quickly was really difficult to accept.  There were a lot more angry conversations than anything else for several days.  In the end, our recourse was to return back to Lancaster, just a year after we left.  

In the middle of all this personal turmoil, we came to the announcement date in Vancouver, and informed all the associates about the planned closure.  This was a relief for me personally as I didn’t have to continue living a double life toward the associates in our office.  The next few months were a whirlwind of meetings and workshops to hand-over the business to other R&D sites in our division, while we planned to move home.

This empty floor is the result of 4 months of effort.  It was no small feat and the entire team participated in their own way.

On the last day I was in the office... it was strange to see it all empty, a space once full of desks and people.

After the second cancellation impacted our personal lives significantly, I decided to look around at opportunities outside of Bosch just to see what might be available.  As it happened, in just a few weeks time, I had several very interesting opportunities. 

In the end, we relocated back to Lancaster, Pennsylvania in the first week of May, in the middle of what was coordinated chaos! In just a week’s time, we packed our house in Vancouver and travelled to Pennsylvania, we bought a car, a house, appliances; got Owen started in his new school and coordinated the movers carrying almost 400 boxes into our new house. 

As final closure to this saga, I also resigned from Bosch and accepted a new position with Dorma, as their Director of R&D for the Americas Region.   It was a difficult thing for me to leave Bosch, because of the great people that I have worked with along the way, and for the growth in my career I was given during my time with the company. For these things, I will always be grateful, but at the same time, I know it was the right time to separate and go on to a new challenge.  

Do we wish this story had gone differently on several occasions…?  Yes, of course.  But we have no regrets.  We love our friends in Vancouver, and miss being there, but for our family, we grew together and learned things about ourselves that we would have never known if we didn’t go through this.   So I’ll wrap up this with a quote from our favorite storyteller, Dr. Suess, who stated it well when he said: 

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.”